"How to date a younger woman?" (Gasp!) Why does everyone insist you end up with old single mom Kathy, when you have your eye on sexy 20-year-old Latina Esmeralda? It's quite curious, the way society looks down upon older people expressing their sexuality-or heaven forbid, their preferences for younger women! Don't believe that your longing to feel young skin against your body is just a fantasy. Don't conclude that young guys today have something you're missing. Believe me, they don't. They're getting dumber year by year, and this explains why girls are going for older guys. You know, guys who can actually hold an intelligent conversation. Guys who have experience and wisdom to share.
If you are wondering how to date a younger woman, then the answer is much less complex than you think. There are no secrets of seduction here, though taking a refresher course on how to present yourself on a date always helps. For starters, don't be ashamed of your desires or your age. You are both aware of the age difference. However, if you don't make it an issue, and she likes your personality, then carry on as if age is just a number. If you're smart, you will use your age to your advantage. She is young and inexperienced; you are intelligent and have that "medicine man" allure about you.
Do not try to "act young" when learning how to date a younger woman. Be yourself, and show that you are superior to young jackasses who don't know how to treat a lady. Never "need" the women you are interested in. There's nothing more pathetic than an older man begging for a young woman's attention. A confident older man that deserves younger women doesn't beg. He is mature enough to enjoy the conversation and live in the moment. He doesn't try to control his date. He doesn't manipulate her to feel something. These are all little boy mistakes. You are not a boy-you're a man for god's sake!
The biggest obstacle won't be the age difference. It will be meeting each other on a common intellectual level. You may not have the same hobbies or interests upon first meeting each other. However, you can use the mentor and student dynamic to your advantage. Find out what her interests are and then teach her something that she doesn't know. Just remember to keep things about her...don't bore her with stories about fishing, okay?
In learning how to date a younger woman, it is important to choose dating events that she can relate to, and also ones that can highlight your good qualities. Do not compromise just to please her. If you don't like roller coasters, then don't pretend that you do. If however, you feel young and adventurous enough to try white-water rafting, then by all means let her see the real you.
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